My Experience At Age 60

After my last post on my friend’s 60th birthday—Preserving The Legacy and A Duck In The Pond—Dr. Charles Apoki At 59, I made some reflections of my own experiences at this time. Lessons of Life 1. The aging process, even though it starts gradually from 50, increases more rapidly from about 58 years of age even though […]

The Spirit Of Esau And Recklessness

In this series of posts on the Spirit of Esau, we’ve looked at The Spirit of Esau, Why did God hate Esau?, and The Spirit of Esau and Legacy. We continue with a look at Esau’s Recklessness. Text: Genesis 26:34 When Esau was 40 years old he married two Hittite women contrary to the instructions […]

The Spirit of Esau and Legacy

In the series on the study of Esau, we’ve looked at The Spirit Of Esau and Why Did God Hate Esau. We continue the study looking at how Esau treated family legacies. As said earlier on, the covenant inheritance that Esau had as occupational blessing was animal husbandry. It is noteworthy that even Pharaoh’s attempt […]

Marriage: A Transaction in Values

This short video clip below is our new school project at Warri, Delta State.    You can see my wife with a white T-shirt, marching around, inspecting the project, like a soldier. We were driving back home after inspecting the project and I said that marriage is not necessarily sustained by love or emotionalism, but […]

The Unique Family

Speaking at a banquet for married couples at St. Joseph’s Chosen Church, Ughelli. Text: Genesis 6:9-13; Genesis 21:8-21 The first passage gives an account of Noah’s family and the flood. Noah’s family was a unique family because Noah had a special and personal relationship with Jehovah. He was separated from his neighborhood mentality even though […]

Love Letters To My Future Wife–12/8/1982 [Part 1]

I have been keeping these letters for 36 years now. They are a series of letters I wrote to my wife-to-be when we were dating. She kept them for about 5 years before I took over their custody. I make efforts to keep documents very well. I was recently searching for receipts and documents for […]

Living As A Homeless Stranger

I was called up by Dan Ekoko, the MC and my senior at Government College Ughelli to pray for the food and the drinks during the occasion of the 100th birthday celebration of Papa D. M. Ejoor a little over a year ago. Memories came flooding to my mind. I told them that it was […]

32 Years of Faithfulness

Avoiding Adultery Today, the 6th of December, 2017, makes it 32 years of being married to my beautiful wife.   I was a very rascally and sexually active young man before I got married. I was a very corrupt young man from a very early age. As I have said severally, many of my friends […]

Raising A Family

A continuation on the Series of The Story Behind the Glory. The pictures below are that of our only daughter and our second child.   The 6th of December, 2017, marks 32 years of marriage to my wife and raising a family. My experience with raising a family has not been an easy one, but […]

Secrets of Enduring Marriages – Appearances Can Be Deceptive

When you see pictures and hear testimonies from people like us, the tendency is to feel that our marriage is an ideal or a flawless relationship. That is very far from the truth. Every one of us has our own challenges. The first 8 years were not easy (and it’s definitely not a ride in […]