I am Dr. Charles Apoki, your friend and mentor. Today, I want to share profound insights on how to humble your haters, derived from the life of Joseph in the Bible. Let me remind you, you are a divine project. God has a purpose for you, and He will not abandon you until His work in your life is complete.
The Story of Joseph
Joseph’s life offers a masterclass in resilience, purpose, and strategic living. In Genesis 45, we see Joseph revealing his identity to the same brothers who betrayed him. They were left speechless and terrified in his presence. Why? Because Joseph’s success was his response to their betrayal. His journey teaches us how to rise above challenges and become a master of the game.
Joseph’s vision, given at the age of 17, took 13 years to begin manifesting. By the time he was 39, he had become a father to Pharaoh, lord over Egypt, and the preserver of his family. His story is a testament to purposeful living and the fulfillment of divine promises.
Lessons from Joseph’s Strategy
Stay Calm and Be Strategic “Calm down, baby, calm down,” as the song goes. Joseph exemplified calmness and strategy. He prepared a meal for his brothers, even while planning their test. He orchestrated events so meticulously that his brothers were forced to confront their guilt and bow before him, fulfilling his youthful dreams.
Be a Master of the Game Joseph’s actions were calculated. He returned his brothers’ money, placed his silver cup in Benjamin’s sack, and created a situation that brought them back to him. His wisdom and mastery left them no choice but to acknowledge his superiority.
Let Success Speak for You When Joseph revealed himself, he did not dwell on their betrayal. Instead, he highlighted God’s purpose in his journey: “It was to save lives that God sent me ahead of you.” He humbled his haters by letting his success and purpose speak louder than their actions.
Forgive and Focus on Purpose Joseph did not harbor bitterness. He understood that God uses challenges to position us for greatness. “Do not be distressed or angry with yourselves,” he told his brothers. Forgiveness freed him to focus on his God-given purpose.
Key Takeaways for Your Life
Don’t Fight Over Trivial Matters: Joseph did not waste energy on petty issues. Instead, he focused on the bigger picture of fulfilling his vision.
Learn from Adversity: Challenges are often stepping stones to greatness. Embrace them as part of God’s process to elevate you.
Be Purposeful: Live a life driven by vision and purpose. Let your dreams guide your actions and decisions.
Stay Humble Yet Assertive: Like Joseph, be firm and strategic while maintaining humility.
You Are a Divine Project
As we step into 2025, ask yourself: What vision do I have for my life? What steps am I taking to achieve it? Remember, your current struggles are part of a divine process. God is positioning you for greatness. Don’t carry bitterness in your heart. Instead, press forward toward your higher calling.
Declare with me:
“I am a divine project. I will not be abandoned. I have a contract with my God, and He will never abandon me until He finishes His project in my life.”
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Remember, success is the best response to your haters. Stay focused, stay calm, and be a master of the game. God bless you.
