Missing Ingredients in the ” Christmas Message” | @ D Palace of the Okobaro of Ughievwen Kingdom

It is a privilege to share this message in the presence of my king. If my father could see me here today, he would be amazed. While I have spoken across the world, this moment feels profoundly significant. It is a reminder that education is not a scam—it can elevate us beyond expectations.

This Christmas, let us reflect on the missing ingredient in African Christianity: responsibility.

Responsibility as a Core of Faith

When I observe Christianity in other parts of the world, especially in Europe, it is evident that while they may not pray with as much fervor or dramatics as we do, they produce remarkable results. Their environment reflects order, discipline, and responsibility.

Christianity is not just about prayer and miracles; it is about taking responsibility for our lives and actions. Even Jesus exemplified responsibility. When the angel announced His birth to Mary, she and Joseph did not wait idly for divine provision. Despite carrying the Savior of the world, they endured disruptions and sacrifices. Their journey to Bethlehem was not made easier by supernatural means—there was no divine Uber or chariot sent their way.

Capacity and Readiness

Why was Mary chosen? Why Joseph? It was their capacity and readiness to take on the responsibility. Similarly, in our lives, God blesses and entrusts us based on our ability to manage what we are given. Fasting and prayer without the capacity to handle opportunities will not yield lasting results.

We must stop blaming external forces—colonial masters, witches, or demons—for our challenges. Nations like Malaysia, Singapore, and India were also colonized, yet they have advanced. Blame and excuses hold us back.

The Need for Vision and Action

Your “pregnancy” symbolizes your vision or calling. Just as Mary had to carry and birth Jesus in less-than-ideal circumstances, we must be willing to nurture and deliver our visions. No one will carry it for you. You must push, even when there is no midwife. Use what you have to achieve what you need.

At 27, I was managing a 40-bed hospital. By 29, I owned my hospital. My father left me nothing, yet I built my life through determination and the willingness to take responsibility.

Stop Complaining; Start Creating

Africa’s greatest problem is not lack of resources but a lack of responsibility and innovation. We focus on what we lack instead of maximizing what we have. For example, I have proposed ideas to turn local resources into energy and development opportunities. Yet, many remain fixated on obstacles rather than solutions.

If you can sing, sing well. If you can teach, teach exceptionally. This generation does not need ordinary people—it needs motivated, aggressive, adventurous, determined (MAD) individuals who are driven to make a difference.

Lessons from Mary’s Labor

Mary gave birth to Jesus in a stable, wrapped Him in swaddling clothes, and laid Him in a manger. She used what was available. In the same way, we must learn to work with what we have, no matter how small or inadequate it seems.

Final Thoughts

The message of Christmas is not just about celebrating the birth of Christ. It is a call to responsibility, vision, and action. Let us stop looking for miracles to solve every problem and start taking charge of our lives.

If you fail in Africa, it is not because of demons or colonialism—it is because you have not taken responsibility. God has already given you the tools; it is up to you to use them.

God bless you,
Dr. Charles Apoki

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