Good morning from Delta State, Nigeria. I am Dr. Charles Apoki. Today, I want to share my reflections on Bishop T.D. Jakes’ recent health emergency and the lessons we can draw from it.
First, we must acknowledge that health challenges can happen to anyone, regardless of their righteousness, position, or achievements. Even Elisha, a righteous man, fell ill and eventually died. It would be wrong to view health crises as divine punishment or a reflection of one’s spiritual state.
David once observed that ungodly people seemed to live long, healthy lives while his own faith was tested by struggles. The truth is, good health and longevity result from a mix of genetics, lifestyle, and sometimes sheer luck—not solely righteousness.
Bishop T.D. Jakes is 67 years old, just two years older than I am, and at this age, the body becomes prone to numerous health challenges, including cardiovascular diseases. Obesity, genetics, stress, and lifestyle factors all contribute. While Jakes has made efforts to manage his weight, his family history and years of pressure from ministry could have taken a toll on his health.
Ministry Pressure and Self-Care
The demands of ministry are intense. Preaching, especially in Pentecostal churches, is physically and emotionally exhausting. Preaching for one hour can feel like four hours of farm labor because of the shouting, movement, and emotional exertion involved. This constant exertion, coupled with insufficient rest and stress, takes its toll over the years.
I’ve experienced this firsthand. On several occasions, I’ve felt dizzy while preaching due to exhaustion, long travels, or medications. At times, I had to sit down mid-sermon to regain my strength. Reflecting on these experiences has taught me to listen to my body and prioritize rest when necessary.
As ministers, we must understand that we are not invincible. Even Jesus rested when tired. Stretching ourselves thin with crowded schedules, fasting excessively without wisdom, and neglecting proper medical care can lead to catastrophic outcomes.
Lessons for Ministers and Everyone Else
- Aging Is Inevitable: The gray hairs and reduced energy levels are signs that our bodies are aging. As we grow older, it is important to adapt our lifestyles to accommodate this reality.
- Delegate Responsibilities: Ministry is not a one-man show. Delegation helps prevent burnout and allows others to grow in their roles.
- Prioritize Rest and Recovery: Exhaustion is a silent killer. Decline engagements when necessary, spread out your commitments, and take time to recover after intense activities.
- Seek Medical Help: Ignoring health issues or spiritualizing medical conditions can have fatal consequences. Regular check-ups and early interventions save lives.
- Moderate Fasting and Spiritual Activities: While fasting and prayer are essential, excessive fasting without considering your health can lead to serious complications. Balance is key.
A Word to Younger Ministers
Young ministers often emulate the energetic preaching styles of older pastors like T.D. Jakes. However, we must understand that such vigor comes at a cost. Learn from the struggles of older ministers. You don’t have to exhaust yourself or your congregation with crowded schedules or endless services.
Conclusion
The Yoruba have a saying: When your neighbor’s goat dies, you reflect on your own life. Bishop T.D. Jakes’ health scare should prompt us all—ministers and laypeople alike—to reflect on how we manage our health and lives. Ministry should not come at the expense of our well-being.
Let us also remember to pray for T.D. Jakes and all those battling health challenges. May we learn to care for ourselves as vessels of honor, so we can continue to serve effectively without unnecessary strain.
I remain Dr. Charles Apoki. Stay wise, stay healthy, and may God bless you.
