Don’t Let Anyone Cajole, Threaten, Force, or Entice You to Give in Church | It’s Unscriptural

I want to share some insights from the Book of Acts about the spirit of giving in the early church, and how it contrasts with today’s practices in many religious organizations.


The Early Church: A Model of Generosity:

In Acts 4:32-37, we read about the early believers who were united in heart and mind. They did not claim ownership over their possessions but shared everything they had. With great power, the apostles continued to testify to the resurrection of our Lord Jesus, and much grace was upon them all. There were no needy persons among them because those who owned lands or houses sold them, brought the money from the sales, and laid it at the apostles’ feet. This money was then distributed to anyone in need.

We also see this spirit of generosity in Acts 2:44-45, where all the believers were together and had everything in common. They sold their possessions and goods and gave to anyone as they had need. This was a community where needs were met through voluntary and willing contributions, without compulsion or coercion.

My Personal Experience:

When I became a Christian in the 1980s, there was a similar spirit. I sold my wedding gifts to open a ministry school. Later, we sold some of our personal items to fund the construction of a church. The community came together, contributing goods and resources to achieve common goals.

However, over time, as the church grew and evolved, things began to change. The initial spirit of equality and commonwealth gave way to the “iron law of oligarchy,” where a few individuals began to control a large percentage of the privileges and benefits within the church.

The Shift in Giving:

Today, many people face challenges, and often, the church is not there to help them. When individuals ask for help, they are frequently told that the church has no money, despite having given their tithes, first fruits, and offerings. This shift has led to a disconnection between the congregation and the church leadership.

Responsible Giving and Building Personal Finances:

  1. Be Responsible to Your Religious Organization
    • Play your role intellectually, financially, physically, and emotionally.
    • Support your church, but also understand the importance of personal financial stability.
  2. Build Your Personal Finances
    • The church is not a cooperative where you automatically receive dividends for your contributions.
    • God blesses us through the work of our hands, the services we render, and the products we bring to society.
    • Build a system where God can pour blessings into your life. Open new avenues for income beyond your salary.
  3. Be Relevant to Your Family and Community
    • Support your family and build strong relationships. Your children will remember your sacrifices and celebrate you.
    • Stay connected to your extended family, community, and tribe. The church should not isolate you from these important relationships.
  4. Expand Your Network and Value System
    • Build relationships and networks beyond your denomination.
    • Create a net worth and value system that extends beyond your religious community.

A Call to Pastors and Church Leaders:

Pastors and church leaders should encourage voluntary and cheerful giving, as demonstrated in the New Testament. Avoid manipulating, coercing, or terrorising the congregation into giving. Teach the value of love for God and for one another, and let giving come from the heart.

God bless you.


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