A video recently went viral showing a girl who struck another girl at the back of her head during a relay race at Virginia High School in the United States. She later claimed that she stumbled, but it was evident that the act was driven by jealousy. Her father, rather than correcting her, shamelessly defended her actions.
Reports indicate that the victim of the strike had previously broken a record, which could have triggered this malicious jealousy. Jealousy is a dangerous emotion—it arises when someone harbours ill feelings toward another due to their abilities, achievements, or possessions. It often leads to irrational and destructive behaviour.
The Nature of Jealousy
Jealousy is closely linked to witchcraft, which is often manifested as obstructionism—deliberate efforts to hinder someone else’s progress. The girl who struck her competitor was in an inner lane and felt provoked when the other girl ran past her. Rather than training harder, she lashed out, aiming to stop the other’s success by force.
This is a lesson in life. People who are jealous often exhibit the following behaviors:
Criticism without reason – They attack others for no valid cause.
Antagonism – They create unnecessary conflicts.
Scandalizing others – They spread false narratives to damage reputations.
Setting traps – They attempt to sabotage others’ success.
My Personal Experience with Jealousy
I have experienced jealousy firsthand. Growing up among children of the elite, I could have become envious. Instead, I cultivated admiration and aspiration. I admired their lifestyle and aspired to rise above my circumstances. I worked hard—fetching firewood, selling roasted fish, and reading borrowed books—until I achieved success.
Even as an adult, I have faced jealousy. When I built my school, some people in the community opposed my progress. A man once blocked a road I maintained, trying to prevent my trucks from passing. When my wife and drivers removed the obstruction, he cursed me, claiming I had ‘blood money.’ His jealousy consumed him, and he ultimately faced the consequences of his own bitterness.
Another time, a pastor deliberately blocked the entrance to my school with his motorcycle. Despite being a religious leader, his jealousy led him to absurd actions. When confronted, he insulted me and falsely accused me of using illegal means to gain wealth. In the end, the community sanctioned him, proving that jealousy often leads people into self-inflicted troubles.
Handling Jealousy
Avoid Jealous People – Do not engage with those who harbour envy. They will drain your energy and distract you from your goals.
Do Not Dim Your Light – Continue excelling despite the negativity. Your success is not dependent on others’ approval.
Stay Focused – Like a runner in a race, stick to your lane and keep moving forward.
Aspire Instead of Envying – Let other people’s achievements inspire you to work harder, not to resent them.
Pray and Prophesy Over Your Life – Declare positivity over your future, just as I have always spoken over my own life and projects.
Jealousy is a destructive force, but it can be overcome by maintaining the right mindset. Learn to celebrate others’ successes, and focus on your own journey. When it is your time to shine, nothing can stop you.
I remain your friend, Dr. Charles Apoki.
We have properties for sale. For inquiries, contact us.
God bless you, and don’t be jealous of others. Instead, let their success inspire you to aspire, perspire, and acquire your own success!
