I want to share a profound principle that runs throughout the Bible—consistency. Though not always obvious, it is a recurring theme that holds significant importance.
In the creation story, the earth was formless and dark, but God consistently spoke light and life into it until He saw that it was very good. He handed over the earth to man to continue the process He began. This pattern of consistency extends to relationships and commandments in the Bible. One of the most important commandments, known as Shema, instructs us to love God with all our might and to love our neighbours as ourselves. God also made a promise: “I will never leave you. I will go before you. Do not be afraid or dismayed.” This reflects God’s consistent commitment to His relationship with us.
Consistency in Relationships
In 2 Kings 2, we see the relationship between Elisha and Elijah as a perfect example of consistency. Elijah told Elisha he was going to different places like Gilgal, Bethel, Jericho, and eventually the Jordan. Despite knowing Elijah would be taken away, Elisha refused to leave him. Many would have listened to the students of the prophetic school or started making alternative plans. However, Elisha remained consistent, and his faithfulness was rewarded with a double portion of Elijah’s anointing.
Consistency is key not only in our spiritual lives but also in human relationships. I’ve experienced this firsthand. One of my mentees has been with me for 25 years through thick and thin. I invested in him, and now he sees a tenfold return. Another assistant who has been with me for 16 years has earned more in one month than many special assistants to governors. I have rewarded this consistency with gifts like plots of land because they stayed committed.
Sadly, some people only show up when they need something, and when things go wrong, they disappear. Such inconsistent behavior leads to stagnation in relationships and life.
Commitment and Consistency in Marriage
Many marriages today lack consistency and commitment. Some people enter relationships for the wrong reasons—status, beauty, or financial gain. When those things no longer satisfy, the relationship crumbles. True consistency means showing up reliably and predictably for your partner, prioritizing their well-being alongside your own, and demonstrating stable behavior in both good and bad times.
In the story of Ruth and Naomi, Ruth’s determination to stay with Naomi despite Naomi’s attempts to send her away showcases the power of consistency. While Orpah returned to her people, Ruth’s unwavering dedication brought blessings and a place in the lineage of Christ.
Mentorship and Consistency
Mentorship also thrives on consistency. I have observed that some people do not excel like their mentors because they fail to stay consistent. For example, many Igbo traders excel because they remain consistent in mentorship. Those who stay and learn from leaders often surpass their peers.
Elisha’s story highlights the dangers of inconsistency. The other prophets watched from a distance, preferring to gossip and speculate rather than stay close to Elijah. When Elijah was taken up, they missed the opportunity to inherit his anointing.
The Dividends of Consistency
Consistency leads to commitment, and commitment yields dividends. Whether in marriage, business, or mentorship, staying faithful and consistent ensures lasting relationships and success. Those who only seek immediate benefits often end up unfulfilled and stagnant.
Final Thoughts
Who are you working under? What are your relationships like? Are you consistent, or do you only show up when you need something? Commitment and consistency are the keys to thriving in relationships, careers, and life.
I’m Dr. Charles Apoki,
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