I am Dr. Charles Apoki. There are certain things I don’t do. I don’t compete with people, and I rarely contest for things. That doesn’t mean you can just take what belongs to me, but I’ve always known I’m different. Even as a child, my father would tell others not to copy my style because I’ve always been set apart. God has handled me differently, and this understanding shapes my approach to life.
I don’t intentionally create conflict. My philosophies and doctrines might irritate some people, but I have no personal issues with anyone. I’ve realized the importance of God’s presence. His presence is His essence—where His mercy, compassion, and goodness reside. If you carry His presence, you don’t need to struggle unnecessarily.
The Root of Overdependence on Prayer and Prophecy
The prevalence of prayer and prophecy in our Christianity reveals a deeper issue: distance from God. Many are unwilling to know God personally, so they rely on prophets. However, when you relate with God personally, He speaks to you directly, like a father to a child.
Consider Joseph. Despite being sold into slavery, the Bible says, “The Lord was with Joseph, and he prospered.” Joseph’s success didn’t stem from sowing seeds, making vows, or lengthy prayers. It came from God’s presence. The principles of the kingdom of God are clear: God’s presence transforms your environment and brings favour.
Be Different and Trust God
Joseph was different from his brothers. At 17, he brought bad reports about them. He chose not to conform but to align with God’s principles. As Christians, we must step away from typical mindsets—whether cultural, tribal, or societal. Instead, strive to be like God: “Be holy, for I am holy.”
Many of us are obsessed with ancestral curses, but the Bible is clear: “The fathers have eaten sour grapes, and the children’s teeth are set on edge” no longer applies (Ezekiel 18:2-4). Each person is responsible for their own actions. Rather than fixating on curses, focus on God’s righteousness and His kingdom. Everything else will follow.
Flow in God’s Grace
We struggle too much in our Christianity. We try to earn God’s grace, but it’s not by works. Rest in His grace and love. The Israelites failed to enter the Promised Land because they didn’t trust God. They saw themselves as grasshoppers and focused on their enemies instead of God’s promises. Don’t let fear dominate your faith.
I come from a background where shrines and idols are common, but they don’t affect me because I’ve separated myself from those systems. I’ve chosen to live by God’s principles, and His presence ensures my prosperity.
The Blessings of Joseph
Joseph’s master, Potiphar, saw that the Lord was with him and that everything Joseph did succeeded. This visible blessing led Potiphar to entrust Joseph with his entire household. Similarly, people will invest in you when they see God’s grace manifesting in your life.
Unfortunately, many young people today avoid church because of the misconduct of pastors and leaders. They see hypocrisy and lose trust. To attract people to God, let them see His goodness in you—not through scheming or manipulation, but through genuine grace and integrity.
Focus on Legacy, Not Curses
Instead of talking about ancestral curses, why not focus on leaving an ancestral legacy? Pass down principles, philosophies, and practices rooted in God’s kingdom. Joseph inherited the blessings of Jacob, and they manifested in his life. You can create a similar legacy for your descendants.
I aim to leave behind ancestral blessings for my children’s children—principles that produce results. God blesses me wherever I am because His presence is with me. If you find yourself struggling too much, it’s a sign of ignorance or rebellion.
Closing Thoughts
I remain Dr. Charles Apoki. Let’s focus on God’s presence, align with His principles, and leave a legacy of blessings.
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