As we step into 2025, I have resolved never to be intimidated by any Nigerian’s so-called “success.” Whether it’s the size of their house, the car they drive, or their achievements, I refuse to be overwhelmed. Why? Because many of these successes are façades—masquerades, to be precise.
The Masquerade Illusion
In my younger days, when we watched masquerades perform, we thought they were spirits from the water. But in reality, they were just men in costumes. Some even suffered amusing mishaps, like a masquerade in Edo State whose raffia costume caught fire while smoking a cigarette, exposing him as a mere mortal.
In the same vein, many of the so-called “successful” Nigerians are living behind a mask. Take, for instance, a prominent socialite in Lagos who appeared to be a legitimate entrepreneur, importing shoes and textiles from China. In reality, she was deeply involved in drug trafficking. Imagine the pressure you’d feel trying to keep up with her lifestyle—whether as her neighbor, a fellow trader, or a church member.
The truth is, many people celebrated as “blessed” in our society are criminals. They thrive on illicit activities like drug trafficking, electoral fraud, and financial scams. Yet, they are often given platforms in religious and social gatherings, further compounding the false narrative of their success.
The Evil of Comparison
Living in Nigeria, it’s easy to feel frustrated when you see dishonest people celebrated while honest, hardworking individuals struggle. A corrupt individual who has stolen votes will parade the streets with sirens and police escorts, intimidating the very people they’ve oppressed. Churches and social organizations often delay ceremonies, waiting for such individuals to arrive, while honest people are sidelined.
But let me tell you this: never let these people intimidate you. Their wealth is stained with blood and dishonesty, and many will face dire consequences, just like Hushpuppi, who was once hailed as a success but ended up in prison.
A Call to Live Differently
I urge young Nigerians to choose a different path. Live a life of:
- Integrity: Be honest, even when it’s difficult.
- Hard Work: There is dignity in legitimate labor.
- Delayed Gratification: Invest and reinvest in yourself rather than chasing quick, dirty money.
No matter how little you have, if it is earned legitimately, you can live in peace. The glory of integrity, honor, and respect far outweighs the fleeting satisfaction of ill-gotten wealth.
Recognizing the Masquerades Around Us
The National Drug Law Enforcement Agency (NDLEA) has recently been cracking down on drug lords and criminal kingpins. I commend their efforts and pray it continues. However, the evil in our society is often perpetuated by those we look up to—people who misuse their wealth and influence for personal gain, leaving the masses in despair.
Even my granddaughter, at her young age, has noticed the irony of this society. She once asked me why I, someone known nationwide for my work, don’t have police escorts, while less deserving individuals flaunt theirs. I told her the truth: I don’t fear anyone because I have nothing to hide. I am protected by God, and my integrity is my shield.
A Better Way Forward
As I reflect on our generation and the one before us, I see an evil trend—one that celebrates fraud and corruption. I speak to you, young men and women: Be different. Don’t let the masquerades intimidate or deceive you. Most of what you see isn’t real.
Focus on building a life of meaning and value. Money loses its worth, but a good name endures forever.
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Let’s build a generation of Nigerians who prioritize honor over wealth and meaning over materialism. God bless you.
Dr. Charles Apoki.
