I am Dr. Charles Apoki, and today, I want to address a harsh reality: while all lives are equal before God, they are not equal before man. Ideally, all lives should be equal before the law, but we do not live in an ideal world. The earlier we confront this reality, particularly in Nigeria and many parts of the world, the better equipped we will be to navigate it.
The Inequality of Lives
In reality, not all lives are treated equally, especially in nations like Nigeria. Here, some lives are disposable. There are tribes in this country where cattle are deemed more valuable than human lives. A recent example involved a retired Rear Admiral whose farm was invaded by herders. When he confronted them, they brutally attacked him. If the situation had been reversed, and a herder or even a cow was harmed, the repercussions would have been swift and severe. This is the grim reality of our nation.
The disparity extends beyond ethnic lines. Poor Nigerians are often treated as disposable by the wealthy and powerful. The judiciary and political systems prioritize their own families, positioning them strategically while the average citizen struggles for basic opportunities. Even tragic events, like the loss of a governor’s son, receive disproportionate attention compared to the countless lives lost daily due to insecurity, injustice, or systemic failures.
Lessons from Abroad
Globally, similar inequalities exist. In the United States, black people have historically faced systemic injustices, including wrongful imprisonments and executions. In Nigeria, the inequality manifests differently but is no less severe. For instance, when we compare the opportunities afforded to notable African figures abroad, like Kemi Badenoch in the UK or Barack Obama in the US, it becomes evident that such success would be nearly impossible within Nigeria’s current systems.
The Iron Law of Oligarchy
Our society operates under the “Iron Law of Oligarchy,” where a select few control resources and power, leaving the majority disposable. But in egalitarian societies, the leadership is held accountable by the people. In South Korea, corrupt leaders are replaced swiftly through democratic processes. In Nigeria, however, votes are often sold for bags of rice or other petty inducements, perpetuating the cycle of inequality.
Add Value to Your Life
In this unjust system, the best way to avoid being disposable is to add value to your life. Despite the challenges, many Nigerians have risen above their circumstances. Public school graduates have become prominent professionals. Entrepreneurs from humble beginnings have built thriving businesses. It’s not about condemning education or hard work but maximizing the opportunities available to you.
As we approach a new year, focus on personal growth. Strategize for your future. Stop wasting time attacking others or defending systems that do not serve you. Instead, invest in yourself and your family. Prepare to vote wisely and hold leaders accountable.
The Way Forward
The change Nigeria needs will not come overnight, but it starts with us. Build a society where every life matters and is treated with dignity. Add value to your votes and insist on a system that prioritizes social justice. Remember, the consequences of our actions or inactions eventually catch up with us all.
I remain Dr. Charles Apoki, the Area Grandfather. Join me in January 2025 for a webinar on “Hitting the Ground Running Financially in 2025.” Register by sending a message to us. We also have properties for sale—reach out to us. God bless you.
