What I Learned by Studying Older Church Folks | Very Instructive

I am your friend, Dr. Charles Apoki. The Bible says, “Study to show yourself approved, a workman that needs not be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth.” Studying is not just about reading and knowing—it’s about keen observation for learning, understanding, and applying knowledge to achieve specific objectives.

Through observation and reflection, I’ve learned several lessons from older church folks, including pastors, general overseers, and church leaders, especially as they transition into old age. Here are my insights:

1. The Struggles of Aging Church Leaders

Many church leaders, apart from those who built mega-churches or established extensive networks, face significant challenges in old age. Financial struggles, health issues, and diminishing relevance are common. Some pastors continue to stress themselves preaching, even when their health demands rest.

I’ve seen pastors who, after decades of service, lack the necessary resources for proper healthcare, comfortable living, or even basic needs. Unfortunately, the churches they served often cannot support them adequately, and their congregations aren’t always in a position to help.

2. The Need for Intentional Planning

It’s crucial to understand that serving God in a church is not the same as working for a bank or an oil company. As a pastor, you are not entitled to a pension or retirement benefits from the church. Therefore, you must be intentional about planning for your future:

  • Take care of your health early.
  • Invest in assets and businesses that can sustain you in old age.
  • Diversify your income sources beyond ministry.

A young man once thanked me for advising him against full-time ministry without a backup plan. He diversified into legitimate businesses, built a school, and even established a church while maintaining financial stability.

3. Marrying Spirituality with Practicality

Faith is powerful, but it must align with reality. Quoting scriptures without planning for the future is self-deception. The disciples in the New Testament did not have wealth, but they also didn’t face the financial demands of modern life, such as rent, school fees, or rising costs of living.

The Old Testament teaches the sociology of the kingdom of God, while the New Testament emphasizes its spirituality. You must balance both to live a fruitful and sustainable life.

4. Health is Wealth

Many senior pastors face health challenges like hypertension, cancer, and other age-related conditions. Even those with a history of healing others through prayer often need medical care for themselves. This requires financial resources for specialized diets, physiotherapy, comfortable accommodations, and appropriate medical treatments.

Ignoring these realities leads to frustration and avoidable suffering.

5. Reality is Unforgiving

The future is deaf and dumb—it doesn’t care about your past excuses or regrets. When you look in the mirror, you see the result of your thoughts, decisions, and actions. Start preparing now, so reality doesn’t catch you unprepared.

A Final Word of Wisdom

Do not waste your productive years under the illusion of being overly spiritual, neglecting the practical aspects of life. God expects us to plan, invest, and use wisdom while serving Him. Let this message inspire you to take proactive steps today.

I remain your friend, Dr. Charles Apoki.

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