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Wike, Land Revocations in Abuja and the Temporary Nature of Power | Lessons From History

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I am your friend, Dr. Charles Apoki, and I want to share some thoughts about the fleeting nature of life and the things we often fight over. But first, let me celebrate our sister Aisha Yesufu on the graduation of her daughter, who is now employed and working in a nuclear energy facility abroad. For those who criticize us for sending our children overseas, we do so to give them the best opportunities, the kind we are fighting to create here for the voiceless. Our hope is to make our society one that our children and grandchildren would love to return to and contribute towards its development.

I remain committed to this nation because it has given me a lot. That’s why I stay here, running businesses, employing people, and giving scholarships. I have no hatred for anyone; I only hate evil and oppression. This is the foundation upon which I live my life.

Recently, I’ve been reflecting deeply on life. While trekking to achieve my daily goal of 10,000 steps, I saw several banners marking the remembrance of the dead. These were once influential individuals: wealthy men, iconic businessmen, and prominent citizens. Their once-bustling homes now lie in silence, some overgrown with weeds, their legacies reduced to mere memories.

As I continued my walk, the question kept ringing in my mind: What are we fighting over in this life?

I’ve reached a stage in life where I no longer stress myself about material possessions or power struggles. I’ve handed over my business affairs to my wife, and I’ve learned to prioritize peace and focus on what truly matters: my contribution to society and the legacy I leave behind. After all, all the beauty, wealth, and fame we pursue are temporary.

I recently watched a video about a colonel who once held enormous power in Nigeria. Today, his estate is on the verge of being forcefully acquired and demolished. When he was alive, no one dared cross him. Yet now, all his achievements seem futile. The Bible aptly puts it: All men are like grass, and all their glory like the flowers of the field; the grass withers, and the flowers fall.

Even as we see extravagant lifestyles today—with people amassing wealth beyond their needs—it’s sobering to realize how little of it truly matters in the end. Whether it’s billions in stolen funds or countless properties, none of it can follow us to the grave. A coffin and a small grave are all we ultimately need.

I’ve also reflected on how we handle relationships, especially in our families. I used to argue with my wife over every little thing until God spoke to me, asking, Is that how I respond to you? That changed my perspective. I’ve since learned to choose peace over unnecessary fights. If my wife says something I disagree with, I let it go. Time, after all, is an impartial judge.

The same principle applies to our lives as a whole. What are we fighting for? Reputation? Material wealth? Social media validation? It’s important to remember that God looks at the heart, not the outward appearance. Many of the things we place so much importance on—beauty, status, wealth—are fleeting. They crumble into nothingness over time.

Let’s not allow greed, self-aggrandizement, or petty conflicts to dictate our lives. Instead, let’s focus on building legacies that truly matter. As for me, I am dedicated to raising one million African entrepreneurs and leaders who will help create a better Africa. This is my inspiration and my life’s mission.

I urge you to reflect on your life and the things you fight over. Life is too short and fragile to waste on quarrels and acquisitions that don’t matter in the end. Let us calm down, let go of our pride, and focus on what truly counts.

As we enter 2025, I invite you to join our upcoming webinar on January 10th and 11th, titled “Hit the Ground Running Financially in 2025.” We also have properties for sale to help fund our initiatives. If you’re interested, reach out to us. Remember, we need resources to lubricate life, but let’s not become slaves to materialism.

God bless you.

Dr. Charles Apoki

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