I am your friend, Dr. Charles Apoki. Today, I wish to address a matter that requires urgent intervention—one that threatens to polarize a nation already grappling with numerous challenges. This is the ongoing conflict between Dele Farotimi, a young, fearless advocate for justice, and our esteemed elder, Afe Babalola.
When Wisdom Must Prevail
The Urhobos have a saying: “When a fly perches on your scrotum, you need wisdom to deal with it.” If you strike too hard, you harm yourself; if too softly, the fly remains a nuisance. This saying aptly captures the delicacy required in navigating this situation.
Afe Babalola is a respected legal luminary with an impeccable legacy. At nearly a century old, he has earned his place as one of the most distinguished figures in Nigeria’s history. On the other hand, Dele Farotimi is a strategic thinker and a fearless advocate who has garnered immense respect among the youth for his bold stance against oppression and corruption.
This is not just a legal conflict; it is a generational crossroads that calls for wisdom, diplomacy, and leadership.
A Call for Yoruba Elders to Act
Yoruba elders and leaders of thought—icons like Wole Soyinka, Prof. Akintoye, and others—must rise to the occasion. Their voices carry the moral authority needed to broker peace and avoid an escalation of this matter. It is imperative that:
- Elders intervene before the court date. The December 10th court appearance could become a flashpoint. Demonstrations and protests are already looming, not just in Nigeria but across cities worldwide.
- Reconciliation be prioritized over litigation. A public resolution will prevent unnecessary damage to reputations and avoid fueling more societal unrest.
- The matter be resolved with mutual respect. Dele Farotimi’s confidence suggests he has substantial backing, and prolonging this battle will only tarnish the legacies of all involved.
A Broader Perspective
This issue is not just about two individuals; it mirrors the frustrations of a society where the younger generation feels betrayed by those who came before them. Farotimi’s book, which has sparked this controversy, channels the anger and disillusionment of many Nigerians. To fight him on this terrain is to risk inflaming public sentiment further.
Elder statesmen like Babalola should consider the larger picture. A prolonged battle could inadvertently turn Farotimi into a Mandela-like figure—a martyr for a cause. Conversely, withdrawing the case and focusing on legacy-building would bring dignity to this situation.
A Solution Through Dialogue
One practical way forward could be for younger lawyers in Babalola’s chambers to write a counter-publication addressing the points raised in Farotimi’s book. This intellectual approach would present a balanced narrative and move the discussion from the courtroom to the marketplace of ideas.
Additionally, a gesture of reconciliation from Babalola, such as redirecting this energy into mentorship or philanthropic endeavors, would not only silence critics but also inspire admiration.
A Lesson from History
The story of F.A. Williams and Gani Fawehinmi serves as a cautionary tale. When Gani successfully challenged Williams’ reputation in court, it marked a turning point in public perception. The lesson is clear: battles of reputation are best fought with caution and foresight.
Avoiding Unnecessary Turmoil
At a time when Nigeria is already besieged by numerous crises—ranging from insecurity in the East and North to economic instability—another flashpoint in the Yoruba region is the last thing the country needs. Leaders must act swiftly to prevent this issue from escalating into a distraction or a broader conflict.
A Final Appeal
To our revered elder, Afe Babalola, and to Dele Farotimi, let wisdom and dialogue prevail. To the Yoruba elders, your timely intervention could save this situation from spiraling out of control. Let this be a moment where cooler heads and thoughtful leadership shine through.
I remain your friend,
Dr. Charles Apoki
The Area Grandfather
God bless you.
