Hello, I’m Dr. Charles Apoki, and I’m here to share some reflections from my time in Europe. I’ve had a wonderful tour across Germany, the Netherlands, Belgium, Romania, and Spain—five countries in less than 20 days. It’s been enriching, but the experience has reinforced a crucial lesson for me: every person, like every tree, has a specific soil and climate in which they thrive. For me, that place is Nigeria. The Bible says, “The righteous shall flourish like a palm tree,” and, just as palm trees need the tropics, I know that Nigeria is the soil where I am best suited to grow and contribute.
The hospitality I’ve received here has been remarkable. My son, Dr. Femi, has hosted me in his apartment, even though it’s added to his water and electricity bills. He took time off from his job to accompany me and make my stay comfortable. Dr. Lucio, the former governor of Ondo State, also extended his graciousness by inviting me to speak. But I’ve learned that no matter how much love and kindness people show you, it’s essential not to overstay your welcome.
Over the years, I’ve practiced this principle. I recall an occasion where, after giving a lecture, my friend advised me to leave before it got too late, so we didn’t impose further on our hosts. I left promptly, knowing that maintaining boundaries is a form of respect. This is a reminder for all of us—no matter where we are or how welcomed we feel, it’s wise to know when to leave and avoid becoming a burden.
Another thing I’ve realized is that we all have our responsibilities, and I certainly have mine back in Nigeria. My work in real estate needs my attention, and I have lectures lined up for the Urhobo Progress Union’s National Convention and other engagements back home. These duties call me back because, ultimately, my purpose is tied to Nigeria. I may enjoy travel and the occasional visit, but my impact is meant for the soil that best supports my growth.
Moreover, I’ve encountered some of my followers and subscribers here in Europe, which has been a humbling experience. It reminds me that one can be influential from anywhere in the world. If I can be recognized and appreciated in places like Dortmund or Barcelona, it’s a testament to the power of living with purpose and striving to be a person of value.
With that, I’ll soon be returning to Nigeria to continue my work. For anyone who wants to learn how to become a person of influence, join my upcoming webinar on November 8th and 9th at 7:00 PM Nigerian time. You can register by sending a message to +234 80 21 21 9262. I look forward to sharing more insights with you all.
Thank you, and God bless.
I remain your friend, Dr. Charles Apoki
