I am your friend, Dr. Charles Apoki, and today I want to share my thoughts on the retirement of Bishop David Abioye from Living Faith Church. This event is filled with lessons for those in ministry, and indeed, for anyone who dedicates their life to a cause or organization.
Bishop Oyedepo’s Visionary Leadership
I first met Bishop David Oyedepo around 1985-1986 at the Living Word Training Center. Back then, he was already talking about millions and sharing his vision while we both wore simple shoes made by Limson. I quickly realized he was an extremely motivated and purposeful individual, someone with a strict sense of discipline.
Bishop Oyedepo is known for his work ethic. He arrived at work early and stayed late. His commitment and focus have driven the incredible success of his ministry. His story taught me a key lesson: to build something great, you need vision, dedication, and hard work.
Bishop David Abioye’s Loyalty and Service
Bishop David Abioye served under Bishop Oyedepo for over 40 years. His loyalty and integrity are commendable, as it’s difficult to serve a visionary leader for so long without conflict or scandal. Bishop Abioye’s commitment speaks volumes about his sincerity and dedication to his leader, despite the challenges that come with working for someone as driven and focused as Bishop Oyedepo.
This kind of loyalty is rare, and it is a testament to Bishop Abioye’s character. Many people wonder how it is possible to serve a strict leader like that for decades. From my own experience as a leader, I know that workers often find it difficult to handle such environments. People sometimes ask how my workers manage to work with me, given my frugal nature and strict approach.
Plan for Your Exit
One of the key lessons from this retirement is the importance of planning for your exit. Serving in a large denomination or organization is an honor, but it doesn’t define your entire life. You need to use your experience, network, and skills to prepare for life beyond that role.
When I started ministry, I invited others to join me, but many refused. In hindsight, that was one of the greatest blessings because they would have grown old with me and potentially become dissatisfied, thinking I was the only one progressing.
As leaders, we must create space for others to thrive. Even in marriage, I give my wife her space to function and flourish. In ministry, it is essential to empower others, but they must also understand the importance of personal growth and preparing for life after active service.
Don’t Be Distracted by Anointing or Titles
A critical warning here is not to let the delusion of anointing or titles lead you astray. Too many people get caught up in the excitement of their position and fail to plan. Don’t be fooled by the temporary intoxication of anointing. You must sit down and plan for your future, both in and out of the ministry.
Avoid Temptation and Theft
Lastly, as you prepare for your retirement or exit from any organization, do not resort to criminal activities. Many pastors steal from their denominations, justifying their actions by claiming they are securing their future. This is wrong. You went into ministry to serve God, not man. Let your life be free of financial scandals and dishonesty. Even though the temptation might arise, remain faithful to your calling.
Final Thoughts
The retirement of Bishop Abioye reminds us all to plan for the future while staying loyal and faithful in the present. Whether you are in ministry, business, or any other career, don’t be carried away by titles or fleeting success. Work hard, remain disciplined, and ensure that you are building something that will last beyond your active service.
Join me for my upcoming webinar on November 8th and 9th, Becoming a Person of Influence, where we will discuss more insights and lessons for creating lasting impact. To register, send a message to +23480 2121 9262.
I remain your friend,
Dr. Charles Apoki
