Today, I want to share some reflections on royalty, responsibility, and the significance of mentorship. The title of this message is The Parrot and the King, and it draws inspiration from an incident involving Adams Oshiomole and His Royal Majesty, the Oba of Benin.
The Dignity of Royalty
Royalty is something truly unique. Throughout history, kings have been known for their grace, composure, and dignity, often shaped by a period of mentorship. A prince is often assigned a mentor or guide, known as a paraclete, similar to the Holy Spirit, who helps mold their character. This training ensures that future kings uphold the integrity of the throne, knowing there are certain things they cannot do.
There’s a story from the French Revolution where a young prince, the heir to the throne, was deliberately placed with a corrupt woman in hopes that he would be spoiled. However, he refused to compromise his integrity, saying, “I was born to be a king.” His upbringing made him aware of the responsibility he carried, just like my mother, who always embodied dignity and strength.
The Incident with Adams Oshiomole
Several years ago, during Adams Oshiomole’s tenure as governor, there was a political crisis concerning the choice of his successor. His Royal Majesty, the Oba of Benin, remained silent throughout the conflict, even when Oshiomole sought his advice. The king’s silence was his way of showing restraint and wisdom. When Oshiomole later realized his mistake in ignoring the Oba’s advice about picking Godwin Obaseki as governor, he returned to the palace, knelt down, and apologized.
The king responded with a powerful statement: “When you brought the case to me, I said nothing.”
Oshiomole, who often talks without thinking, had been humbled. His behavior, described as that of a “parrot,” reflected a lack of proper grooming and mentorship. The Oba’s composed silence demonstrated the strength of true royalty.
The Decline of Leadership Standards
Today, we face a similar issue with many of our leaders—people without proper grooming, class, or mentorship. They speak without thinking, much like parrots, and this lack of leadership integrity is damaging our society.
As Christians, we are called to be a royal priesthood. There are things we should not do, and a way we must carry ourselves as representatives of Christ. The way some pastors and religious leaders talk today, without restraint or respect, reflects a lack of true royalty in their character.
