Before marrying, it’s essential to share your vision with your partner. The story of Rebekah and Isaac illustrates this point.
Rebekah’s willingness to fetch water for 10 camels demonstrated her compatibility with Isaac’s lifestyle and values. This highlights the need for couples to discuss their future together during courtship.
Unfortunately, many men prioritize physical attraction over intellectual connection, leading to unexpected pregnancies and unfulfilling relationships. It’s unreasonable to expect a pregnant woman to suddenly share your vision if you haven’t had in-depth conversations about your future together.
Men should take responsibility for their choices and not blame their wives for their lack of commitment. Infidelity, like Bill Gates’ case, often stems from deeper issues, not a lack of shared vision.
Let’s acknowledge that a wife often reflects her husband’s values and managerial abilities.
The signs of compatibility are usually present, but the excitement of a new relationship can cloud judgment. It’s crucial to prioritize intellectual connection and shared vision over physical attraction.
Remember, your wife is a reflection of your values and choices. Take responsibility and build a strong foundation for a fulfilling marriage.
Food for thought.
I remain your friend, Dr. Charles Apoki. You are my responsibility.
