This message is long, but crucial.
Please note, I am not a conventional teacher; I believe in provoking thought to capture attention.
1. Transition Gradually
I trained as a medical doctor from 1979 to 1984 at one of the top medical schools in the British Commonwealth, where even the Saudi Arabian royal family sought treatment. After 15 years of practice, I transitioned to focus on my exit plan, which I had conceived during my final year of medical school. My goal was financial independence and global connectivity, driven by my aversion to poverty.
I did not abruptly end my medical practice; I started planning and preparing for this shift gradually from around the age of 37 or 38. If you are contemplating a major change, avoid making abrupt decisions. Transition gradually while keeping your exit point clearly in view. As Apostle Paul said, “This one thing I do: I press forward toward the mark of the higher calling.”
2. Form a Close Relationship with the Holy Spirit
The Holy Spirit is the current guide and superintendent of the Church. Develop a personal relationship with him and seek his guidance. Use a Bible with clear explanations and maps; multiple versions can be very helpful. With today’s internet resources, studying the Word with an open and willing heart has never been easier.
Many Christians are taught half-truths that may not align with reality. Ensure that your understanding is not disconnected from practical application.
3. Embrace the Holy Spirit’s Teaching
Despite not attending Bible school, I lecture at them and recently spoke to 4,000 pastors in one of Nigeria’s largest denominations. The Holy Spirit personally teaches me and makes the scriptures come alive during my prayer and study times. His guidance has proven more effective than experience, which can often be costly and painful.
In pursuing your exit plans, let the Holy Spirit be your guide. His teachings will set you apart.
4. Be Responsible and Add Value
Remember, you will eventually account for your actions before Jesus. Prioritize responsibility to humanity and the body of Christ in all you do. Aim to bless beyond your congregation and denomination. In every nation you engage with, put its interests first and be a value-adding individual.
I have committed to leaving every person and place better than I found them, striving to make people say “WOW!”—a testament to grace and performance. Integrity is a priceless asset, and I manage substantial assets with trust and respect. For 38 years, I have remained faithful in my marriage, despite frequent temptations, because of my exit plan and respect for the commitments I’ve made.
5. Avoid Desperation and Embrace Gradualism
Desperation is a common pitfall, especially in Africa. Instead, practice gradualism—start small or late but keep progressing steadily. Stay in your lane, avoid disruptions, and maintain focus on your goals and values. Even if criticized or abandoned by others, remain steadfast.
I started from humble beginnings—driving our school bus, cleaning toilets, and acting as a gateman. Today, I have a team of drivers and cleaners. My social media journey also started slowly but has since grown significantly.
Your journey may be unconventional, but persistence and focus will lead to success. Don’t give up on yourself; remain committed, gradual, and focused. His grace is sufficient for you.
I remain your friend, Dr. Charles Apoki. You are my responsibility.
