Ordinary Nigerians Still Treasure Good Values. Money Is Not Everything. A Good Name Matters

NATIONAL VALUE PROMOTION

I want to talk about promoting national values. You see, it’s very easy to speak ill of Nigeria, to feel hopeless about this country. But for some of us, we always see the good in it, no matter the criticisms we make. We do so because we value this country.

Today, I was with my lawyer, and we went to renew our passports. Right from the gate, once they identified me as Dr. Apoki, they started according me respect. This respect wasn’t because I was a “celebrity” in quotes, but because I always speak the truth and stand for principles that can change lives. I was treated with so much respect, which made me reflect on the negative perspective many have about Nigerians—that we are criminals, that we don’t value truth, that we lack integrity. But I was pleasantly surprised. These immigration officers and the general public appreciated the values I stand for and what I’ve been sharing on social media.

At the passport office in Warri, I noticed new innovations that made the process more organized, less congested, and less stressful for those renewing their passports. I was also impressed by the immigration officers’ uniforms—extremely neat and well-ironed. It made me realize that everything boils down to leadership. Their courtesy was world-class.

Another thing that stood out was when they asked me, “Sir, how old are you?” I replied that I was 65, and they wrote it down. They gave priority to elder statesmen, understanding that we can’t sit for long or handle stress easily. This consideration touched my heart and reminded me of my time in Dubai. There, you’d see signs indicating areas where elderly people cross, and drivers were required to slow down because older individuals might not be able to cross the road as quickly as others. They also had special shopping days and price discounts for those 60 and above. In Primrose, I discovered that on certain days, meals were prepared specifically to serve the elderly. When we start to respect our elders in this country, our days may be long, and it will be well with us.

Old age is something that should be treasured and respected. After my visit to the passport office, I went to a restaurant to eat Moi Moi Someone there recognized me and said, “I like you. I like your videos. You are real, authentic, and true to yourself.” This made me realize that Nigerians treasure authenticity. The problem is that when good alternatives aren’t available, people usually settle for what merely resembles good. That’s the challenge in Nigeria. Most good authentic people stay behind; they withdraw, remain silent, thinking that society is too far gone to hear their voices.

But I believe this country has many great people. You should learn to speak out in your own way. You’ll see that as we light our little candles in the darkness that tries to pervade our country, we will light up our nation and build a great country. Don’t be sarcastic; it is possible. It takes time, effort, consistency, and focus on the greater vision of a greater Nigeria.

I remain your friend, Dr. Apoki

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