In life, knowing your true identity is crucial. If you don’t define yourself, others will label you however they please. Just as a stammerer eventually pronounces his own name, you must take control of how you are identified. Don’t let people name you what you are not.
Your self-worth is reflected in how you see yourself. Someone who is honored by the Lord but doesn’t recognize it is like a beast that perishes in the field. Timidity leads to slow but progressive self-depreciation and devaluation, which is a common issue among many Christians.
If you misuse your valuable assets, others will follow suit. For example, if people see you using a Mercedes Benz to carry firewood, they will assume it’s appropriate to ask you to transport poultry manure next. If you don’t value what you have, people will devalue it even more.
Spending time criticizing others is a waste. Criticism, especially the kind rampant on social media, often stems from low self-esteem. People who lack self-worth tend to resent those who make proper use of their lives. When they can’t intimidate you, they will accuse you of being proud and arrogant.
To navigate this, it’s essential to have a balanced and proper self-esteem. Recognize your value and hold onto it firmly. By doing so, you can prevent others from diminishing your worth and ensure that you live a life that reflects your true potential.
